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You’ve worked hard all summer and fall, getting that wardrobe just right. You’ve tried on all kinds of clothes, figured out if you were a flare or pencil skirt kind of gal, had yourself fitted for the perfect bra and bought all the stockings you need to make those legs look like a million bucks. You’ve been to fifteen shoe stores online, bought kitten heels and spike heels and stiletto heels and those Easy Stride pumps that they show women playing basketball in…and you know your favourites are still the candy apple red six inch heels you can barely walk in. But, then again, you didn’t buy them for walking, did you, sissy girl? ::wink:: And you’ve finally found a shade of foundation that matches your skin tone. You have a skin care regime that is keeping you fresh faced and pretty, and they haven’t discontinued your favourite lipstick. You have got your look DOWN, all the way to those pretty bikini panties that really are more comfortable than the butt floss thong you thought you had to wear when you first started dressing up. So what is left?
Your WALK, baby! When you dress up now, you look like a proud confident woman, secure in the knowledge that you are fabulous, so what is with that shuffling never pick your feet up scuffle? Or worse, that long stride that hikes your skirt up and makes you look like a linebacker going down the field? Your walk is as important as your look, sweetheart, it compliments everything you wear and everything you are. So slow down. Find a long mirrored wall or a few honest friends, and practice. Think lovely, think graceful, think feminine. You don’t have to run for that cab, a beauty like you will have a door opened and a doorman whistling to make it stop for you. Glide. Walk in beauty always. Imagine yourself as the queen you are at heart, regal and benevolently in command of all you survey, most especially yourself.
It’s that time of year again! We’ve “fallen back” an hour, it’s getting colder, and the Christmas ads have started way too soon. It’s a time for comfort food, mashed potatoes and beef stew and fried chicken. When you wake up in the dark and it’s cold, you drag yourself to the hot shower, bundle up in sweaters and long skirts and high boots, and half the time you blow off your workout. It’s all you can do to get to work!. The only thing that keeps you going is that rich hot cup of coffee you get from the local java hut. Maybe it’s tea, maybe it’s hot chocolate, but I’m betting it’s some large coffee beverage for most of you. And it won’t be the only one of the day.
Just because the hot weather is over, you can’t stop drinking your water! You want that skin you moisturized and sunscreened and took such good care of all summer to keep looking and feeling wonderful, don’t you? Coffee and tea may taste good and warm you up when you’re cold, but the caffeine actually dries you out so you need even MORE water to keep yourself hydrated and your skin in peak clear glowing form. So if plain cold water doesn’t hold much appeal for you, experiment! Spritzers made with a little natural fruit juice and sparkling water can be a tasty alternative, just make sure that the sparkling water is low sodium. You can substitute decaf or no caf sugarless drinks for half of your daily water needs, I love Crystal Light lemonade and fruit punch, myself. Or diet Canada Dry Ginger Ale. Pour that icy clear lifegiving liquid into a champagne flute and treat it like the wonder it really is, a luxury and health aid that YOU get for pennies or free!
Enjoy!
Okay, Halloween is over and it’s time to start making your home into the cozy winter nest I know you want it to be. Look it over now. Are you still summery? This is a great time to bring out candles and warm throws for the back of your favourite chair or couch. Do you have one of those wonderful bare wooden floors, that feel so cool and good on your feet after a long hot summer day? It’s going to be freezing at night and in the early mornings when you get up, so think about investing in a few soft warm non skid area rugs, to keep your tootsies cozy when you’re making coffee in the chill o’dark hundred. OR fluffy warm faux fur slippers feel amazing, toast your toes AND are pretty amusing if you want to invest in some cute bunny slippers, or just generic fuzzballs. You can pair them with a long plush robe in your favourite jewel tone to make moving around your house a lot more comfortable in winter.
Don’t neglect your inner self too. Girls need beauty in their lives all year long, not just summer. Indulge in things that delight all of your senses. Maybe new sheets, warm snuggly flannel ones, or a perfect down comforter wrapped in a brushed duvet, a deep beautifully colored duvet. Long hot baths, with candles and all kinds of matching bath products will soak warmth into you on the coldest days, while bath oils will leave your skin soft and supple against winter’s drying effect.
Winter can be a beautiful time for feminine sensibilities 
Have fun!!
This assignment is going to be a little different. Traditionally, All Hallows Eve was a festival to celebrate the end of the harvest and the time when the fertile soils rests until spring. Some believed it was a time when the walls between the worlds grew thin and those who had passed before us could return or at least communicate. It became a time of letting go, saying goodbye, embracing that which is over for the last time and laying it to rest. So, this assignment is about letting go. There is so much in our lives that is negative, I want you to give yourself a chance to say goodbye to anything hurtful that is weighing you down. Take an evening when you don’t have any other plans. Have a long soothing bath, use your favorite soap or aromatherapy salts, and only come out when you feel totally clean and peaceful. Dress in something very beautiful and comfortable; light a few scented candles or a few sticks of incense. Maybe pour a glass of wine or a tea that you like to relax with, if music makes you feel peaceful, then add that to your environment. Then sit down and think of all the things that still hurt your heart, even from childhood. Write them down; embrace them for the last time. If it was a person who caused that feeling, forgive them, especially if that person is you. Then take a small metal or stone bowl, something safe, and burn your list. Say goodbye to that pain for the last time. Let it go. Then do something that you love, something that makes you happy and comfortable. Reward yourself and make a wonderful new memory!!
Only two weeks remain to the most fun night of the year for all of our good little sissies and bad little sluts! That’s right, it’s almost HALLOWEEN! Do you have your costume ready? This is one of the few nights of the years when you can indulge some of your fantasies, and in PUBLIC, so what are you waiting for? PLAN PLAN PLAN!! This is an important night and you want to look your best. This is the time to get that hot pink satin maid’s uniform out, to make sure that your fishnets are clean and fresh, to get some new ruffled panties and polish up those stiletto heeled fuck me pumps! Or go all out as Elvira, Mistress of the Dark. Sexy, vampish, big bulging bouncy bimbo boobs, a big haired black wig and a long tight cut down to there and up to here black dress. She’s always a great choice. How about an iconic Blonde Bombshell, Miss Marilyn Monroe, all red lips and blonde hair and bare shoulders swathed in white fur, or our more modern Madonna in one of her many incarnations? The boy toy Like a Virgin Madonna, bedecked in lace leggings, tons of costume jewelry and lingerie worn where everyone can see it, is a permanent part of our collective music memories. Our younger identifying sissies could be Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, complete with blue and white gingham dress and ruby slippers, Little Red Riding Hood with her cape and basket of goodies, or maybe one of the many lovely Disney Princesses? I’m sure Halloween is going to be a lot of fun, get yourself out there and enjoy it this year!!
All right, sissies, time to get up off your butts and away from your computers! This is a great time of year to get active!! You want to fit into all those gorgeous fall fashions you’ve been eyeing for the last month? You want to have those legs look toned and sexy in sheer hose or dark seamed stockings when you get all gussied up? Of course you do, so it’s time to EXERCISE!! Of course, you have to have the right outfit and accessories, so get out the Junonia or Just My Size catalogs and order an adorable leotard and tights, plus some Capezios for your aerobics tape. Then you’ll need a sports bra, cool cut off tee shirt and shorts, along with ankle socks and sneakers for step class, Taebo, kick boxing, or weightlifting. (Light weights will help you tone, not bulk up.)
Exercise doesn’t have to be drudgery either!! You can make it part of your feminine lifestyle. For instance, our own darling Ms Heather is a belly dancer in training! Imagine swathing yourself in sheer draperies and silken veils, tiny silver bells chiming in delicate strands on your hips and twined around one dainty ankle. A bright jewel in your navel, brass tals fitted to your fingers to challenge the hidden musicians or to help you keep pace with your own beating heart. Wouldn’t that be a wonderful way to get your heart rate up every day, and to put something mysterious and sexy and female in your wiggle walk?
Get back to us and let us hear all the ways YOU are keeping yourself fitting into your soft silky skimpies!!
Sluts. This used to be an insult! But among the majority of my callers, being called a slut makes them even more excited and ready to play. I talk to a lot of sissies, and when they want to play dress up, I always ask if they want to be dressed like a good girl, or like a little slut. You can guess, 99 percent of them are little whorish sluts at heart. They want sheer black seamed stockings or sexy fishnets, a scanty little silk scrap of panty, garter belts, sexy bras and the highest fuck me heels to be found. And the dresses should match, leathers cut and laced to show off every curve, or sheer little slipdresses with low necklines and skirts that barely cover their stocking tops! Total slut clothes. But why? Why is the fantasy of being dressed like a whore so exciting to these panty clad vixen wanna bes? It could be the idea of being so desirable when they are wearing their sexy feminine lingerie, dressed up to look like the glamour girls they have always admired.
So this week, let your inner slut prevail! Forget about trying to look “right”, look like that bargain basement ten dollar hooker on the street. Bring out the purple stretch leopard skirt, the ripped fishnets and the cheap red bra you wear under a black lace tank top. Load on the fake jewelry and don’t forget the hoop earrings that you could shoot a basketball through! If you’re cold, get out that fake rabbit fur chubby and a little red purse that might contain condoms, a little bottle of mouthwash and your pimp’s money is essential. Tart up your makeup as well, the cocksucker pout outlined in bright red or hot pink is a must in your slut face!! Lord knows, we get more slut entries in the Beauty Pageant at SIssy School than any other entries, so I know you want to dress like this!! Go forth and slut up, girlfrens.
My sissy pals, we all know that it’s much harder to start being girlish and feminine at a later point in your life. Genetic girls have a lot of advantages. One of the advantages we have are the many books that are read to us when we are very small, and then the books we are encouraged to read as we get older. There are so many wonderful books for young girls, and some of them are such classics that almost every girl knows what you mean when you refer to one. For instance, if I talk about wanting to wear a sunbonnet like Laura when I was a little girl, just about every girl of my age knows that I’m talking about Laura Ingalls Wilder and her Little House series of books. In fact, our mothers and aunts and grandmothers know what we are talking about too! And then there is Little Women and all the books by Louisa May Alcott, not to mention wonderful Anne of Green Gables. I know, you might have watched the movies and TV shows when you were young, or even now as an adult! But the books are so much better and there are scads of them for you to enjoy. A lot of these books were written to teach young women that they can be strong and healthy and smart, as well as feminine and beautiful. There’s no way Veronica Mars wasn’t modeled after Nancy Drew and Trixie Belden, two smart teenage female sleuths who weren’t afraid of danger and always got their man… and the boy they wanted to date!! I want you to seek out some of these wonderful books that so many genetic girls grow up reading, just like we all see “the film” about our periods in health class and fight for the right to finally wear makeup to school. If you don’t know where to start, call me, Ms Tara, and I’d be delighted to recommend one I think you would love, and I’ll tell you where to find it too! As always, I’d love to hear what you think about them, so write and share!
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