Ok, sissies, so you want to be more feminine, more girly, and to embrace your true path as a total sissy. Good for you! I’m so glad you’ve made the commitment to your life path! Welcome, and boy are you in for a fun transformation and life journey. It’s time to get started, and, of course, you already know exactly what to do first and how to go about becoming the sissy of your dreams, so let’s jump to advanced cock sucking techniques. Wait, what’s that? You don’t know what to do first and have no idea how to become a real sissy? Well, let’s forget about tongue twirling techniques, and start at the beginning, properly.

When a sissy first decides to accept their path, they’re already on the path!

I know, that’s complex, but I’m paraphrasing from the Path of the Bodhisattva a bit here. The first step on the path to becoming a sissy (or Bodhisattva) is to decide to walk the path. You’re there! Step one, accomplished, and all it took was facing the enormous journey ahead, the life changes, the social consequences, and deciding to fuck it all and go ahead with your true heart’s desire. Oh, did that make you rethink yourself? Good! This, like the path of the Bodhisattva, isn’t something you jump into on a whim! Or is it…

Step one to becoming a sissy: decide to become a sissy.

All first steps are far more momentous and impactful than we realize at the time. Some sissies only come to an acceptance of their path after they’ve been walking the feminization road for a while! The conscious realization and acceptance of the path to sissy slut cock sucker whore life can come at all stages of the path, and really, can happen again and again. A deepening and growing acceptance, revitalized step by step, stage by stage, renewed at each deeper step towards being a sissy are common. But, this article is all about those sissies who have come to realize already that they are a sissy, and are now looking for ways to mindfully step onto the path. If your Mistress has shoved you onto the path of the sissy, and you’re here to learn how to be a better sissy, you’ll find useful things here, too. But if you’re still grappling with whether or not you are, in fact, a sissy? That’s another essay entirely!

So, you’re a sissy.

Where do you begin to craft the sissy image that you want most?! It’s overwhelming. There’s just So Much to learn, to internalize, to unlearn in some cases, and where do you even start? Slow down, take a breath, relax those shoulders, and unclench your jaw. Start by brainstorming out for yourself about what your ideal sissy life would look like. Don’t limit yourself to reality, for now, don’t think of Reasons This Will Never Work, this is the pure thought dream session. Go wild. Write down, on paper, in your handwriting, what you want your perfect sissy life to look like if this was a dream world where everything could exist if you wish hard enough. We’ll winnow down to reality in a minute, for now: dream big, sissy!

After you’ve got your big dream idealized version of your Sissy Life…

Make a mood board! Or an inspiration board, or use Pinterest to create a board with inspiration on it, whatever appeals to you. I like using magazines and cutting them up with images I can glue to a poster board, and then look at as a type of focus for my daydreaming. But, you do you! A digital mood board is great because you can keep it private just for yourself, which is useful for those who have a living arrangement that wouldn’t allow for a big poster board with panties and lipstick and pink glitter letters proclaiming “You Go Girl!” Yes, this is part of the winnowing down process! The types of images that appeal to you help you get your dream fantasy world back down to something based in reality.

Now, my dear beginning sissy, you need to inject a lot of real-life into your fantasy.

Decide now how open you want to be about your new life path. A lot of sissies keep their feminization fantasies purely in the bedroom, and never bring their girly side out to the public in any way. That’s perfectly fine! A shocking number of trans women start their journeys towards womanhood with fantasies of a sissy life, so don’t be surprised if you find your girly things seeping into your everyday life, and maybe a few years down the road you realize that oops, you’re not a sissy, you’re a woman! Think of this as a scale, from pure fantasy to Out and Proud. Every point on the scale is good and valid, and it’s normal to change where you are on the scale over time! In this stage of your beginning sissy life, you’re thinking in terms of right now, right here. How out can you be, what are the things in your life that are important and need to be protected and shielded from what might turn out to be just a fun jerk off fantasy? Don’t think about the future, or five years from now, just… here and now.

One of the most beneficial things a new sissy can do is to consult an expert.

I believe in the power of an expert. When I’m doing research for Whore School, I go to respected expert sources. Heck, when I’m researching anything, I don’t use junk science or bull-corn, I go straight to the most reputable, respected, solid sources I can find, and then I fact check them! If I want a recipe for a particular dish, I don’t just pick whatever comes up first in a search online, I read several and then decide which recipe sounds best to me. So why, dear beginning sissy, if you wanted to learn all about being a sissy, wouldn’t you also go to an expert on the subject? Consider any of the Mistresses who write here, or who take sissy and feminization sessions through the Enchantrix Empire, to be experts. If you’re stuck on pantie styles, or how to get perfectly lined lips, or what shade of lip gloss to use, come to us! Lost about how to proceed in your sissy journey? No matter where you are on the sissy life journey, asking for advice, help, guidance, or just for a listening ear is always a good idea.

Beginning Sissy, you’re doing such a good job already!

I’m proud of you for making an effort to change and embrace your sissy life. No matter where you are in your journey to the joys of feminization, I see you, and I love what you’re doing! Keep up the good work, darlings.

Your Sissy Mistress Harper

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