Several people have asked this question recently: What is the Perfect Sissy? And, while I am generally unwilling to do something like a laundry list of things to define someone, I will say that are some qualities I look for in a fun sissy submissive and playmate.

I will also be the first to tell you that this is a very subjective thing. Everyone will have their own ideas about the ideal sissy might be. But I’m going to tell you what I think about it, and you can share your own thoughts with me at the end.

The Perfect Sissy Should Be Submissive

Personally, I believe someone who wants to be a perfect sissy should be submissive. Very submissive, in fact. I’m sure there are dominant sissies out there who get by just fine, but in my opinion, a submissive sissy is preferable. This does not mean you have to be or should be submissive in EVERYTHING you do or all parts of your life.

In fact, Ms Erika and I recently did a podcast episode asking: “Are you an Alpha man who yearns to be a feminized sissy?”  This means being a submissive means is a way to escape that Alpha role in the rest of your life. It’s like a vacation!  If you haven’t already discovered the BDSM, kink, feminization themed podcast I do with Ms Erika, you should check out The Weekly Hot Spot podcast.

What does it mean to be submissive to your Mistress?

I like a submissive sissy who is: respectful (of my time and energy), obedient, responsive to my instructions, and of course, very pliable. All these qualities are quite important for the ideal sissy to have.

Another important quality is femininity. A good sissy should work to be very feminine in every way. The type of feminization will likely be different for each person. When you are my sissy, I create our relationship with you. And, being feminine is the foundation.

If you’re worried about your ability to be feminine, don’t be. That’s something I can always help you with. Your submission depends on you, but you can count on me to assist you in becoming more feminine in the way you walk, talk, dress, and behave. As long as you follow instructions well, we can make you into the ideal sissy as far as femininity goes!

What Does A Good Sissy Do?

The best sissies have a number of skills they can use to improve the lives of those around them. But again, these skills are like femininity–if you don’t have them yet, they can be learned! So if these things don’t yet apply to you, I’ll be happy to work with you until they do.

So what are the special skills an ideal sissy has, you ask? Well, there are a bunch of them, but I’ll mention a few below that I find to be very important.

Cock Sucking sissy

I think the ability to suck cock well is a good skill for the ideal sissy to have. Not all sissies are into cock (and that’s fine), but if you are, you should be good at sucking. Learning the best ways to suck will make you a popular sissy! Have you heard our podcast episode on “How to Give a Blow Job” – it’s a tutorial – we can practice these tips on a dildo if you haven’t sucked a man’s cock before.

Another thing that I think is a good skill for a sissy to have is the ability to be an excellent service submissive like a sissy maid. This is one of my favorite roleplays to do and there are so many ways to take this scene.

Finally, sometimes, the thing a Femdom Mistress needs is a girlfriend companion. This may or may not be a sexual thing. But it does mean that you get to have girls’ time with your Mistress and spend time entertaining her and talking with her. I cherish these conversations with you!

So these are some of my ideas about what makes the perfect sissy. This is, of course, the short list because there are many things that go into making the ideal sissy. What do you think I left off this short list? What would you add if someone asked you what you thought about it? Send me an email – Olivia @ EnchantrixEmpire.com or leave me a comment and let me know!

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms Olivia

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