Do you go out of the house “en femme?” If you don’t, is it because you are afraid you won’t pass? If you do, does fear of not passing ruin your enjoyment? And just what is passing to you?
On the Fabulous FemChat Radio Show, Mistress Carmen discussed this concept and asked that her listeners send in emails with their thoughts on this topic. We would like to ask you, members of the Sissyville community, to also respond to the question, “What is Passing?” Please send to incrediblecarmen@yahoo.com so that Mistress Carmen can add your response to the upcoming article on “Passing.”
We look forward to hearing from you on this sensitive and pertinent topic!
Passing is the phenomenon of the genetic male dressing as a woman and being taken as a woman in public. This does not necessarily mean that s/he “passes” with every person s/he encounters, but most people. The phenomenon is somewhat subjective. The subject is aware of passing by the absence of double takes, weird looks, and hostile comments from passersby and others s/he encounters. The experience is often concurrent with a feeling of elation, mixed with anxiety, not due to having fooled others via a masquerade, but via the transformation of an chronic outward appearance that conceals an inward reality.
Dear Mistress Carmen,
passing is attitude. I’ve been in jeans and tee shirt with a day’s growth of whiskers stub and people still called me Miss. Ladies come in all shape and sizes. They rarely look like models. If you dress nicely and have a little makeup and act feminine you will pass. People are not looking at you closely most of the time. If you don’t act different then you will be assme to be female. The more you practice the more you will be able to pass because of your confidence.
The worse time will be bathrooms. Make sure you go before you go anywhere.
I like to dress up in petticoats and squaredancing dresses and skirts. I go for walks around my neighborhood. I dont care if I dont pass, It turns me on more if someone or girls find me out and giggle as I walk by.