Sissy Dating Advice Part 2 from Miss Rachel, the sissy's BFF!First, a note about something I said in part 1, to the effect that you have no reason to care if a woman you’d like to share your sissy self with, even if you don’t necessarily want or need to interact with her sexually, rejects you for your femme.

Many sissies venerate and seek to emulate particular women. Some they don’t know and will never meet, like celebrities, and some they know in the flesh. It’s common for a sissy to develop a sort of gurl crush, even if it remains platonic. I don’t mean to downplay how hurtful it can be to some of you sensitive sissies when you decide to take a risk and tell such a woman you’ve built up in your mind as a paragon of all the things you wish you could be, and she rejects your friendship because of it.

For some of you, the humiliation inherent in that scenario could be as thrilling as it is painful. The same could be said if you happen to meet someone who’s not only disinterested, but vindictive, and decides to expose your secret self to others.

For some of you that’s a fantasy come true, exposure. But for many of you, it’s not. And while a taste for humiliation can help you make lemons out of lemonade in a situation like this, I didn’t intend to neglect the fact that for some of you, it’s not just a matter of a shrug of your sissy shoulders.

Mistresses and others will always be here for you, sissy!

I only meant to underscore the fact that you have friends among Mistresses, other sissies, and other kinksters, such as those you’ll find on Enchantrix Empire. W/e won’t judge you. W/e’ll reassure you that it’s okay to be who you are, and encourage you to continue looking for real women friends irl who understand and may even participate in your feminization!

It’s a bit more complicated if you retain an interest in women for relationships and/or non-virtual sex.

So let’s start there, with what is in My view the most important question if you fit that description.

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Start by assessing two things: Her level of integrity, and how kinky she is.

  • Hang around her long enough to get a sense of how she feels about keeping secrets and honoring privacy.
  • Observe whether or not she gossips a lot, or gets pleasure out of humiliating people (not in the fun way).
  • Pay attention to whether or not she’s conservative about matters related to gender identity and sexual orientation. And if you get to that point, try to find out how kinky she is in general.

Sissyhood is, after all, on the kink spectrum. Even if it might not be her particular taste, if she’s kinky she at least may not reject you for it.

Maybe you can even widen her horizons! Sometimes W/e don’t know something will turn U/s on until W/e try it!

After that, it’s a matter of doing so before it becomes a lie of omission.

And when that is, I’ll discuss in part 3.

Stay tuned!

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