First, a note about something I said in part 1, to the effect that you have no reason to care if a woman you’d like to share your sissy self with, even if you don’t necessarily want or need to interact with her sexually, rejects you for your femme.
Many sissies venerate and seek to emulate particular women. Some they don’t know and will never meet, like celebrities, and some they know in the flesh. It’s common for a sissy to develop a sort of gurl crush, even if it remains platonic. I don’t mean to downplay how hurtful it can be to some of you sensitive sissies when you decide to take a risk and tell such a woman you’ve built up in your mind as a paragon of all the things you wish you could be, and she rejects your friendship because of it.
For some of you, the humiliation inherent in that scenario could be as thrilling as it is painful. The same could be said if you happen to meet someone who’s not only disinterested, but vindictive, and decides to expose your secret self to others.
For some of you that’s a fantasy come true, exposure. But for many of you, it’s not. And while a taste for humiliation can help you make lemons out of lemonade in a situation like this, I didn’t intend to neglect the fact that for some of you, it’s not just a matter of a shrug of your sissy shoulders.
Mistresses and others will always be here for you, sissy!
I only meant to underscore the fact that you have friends among Mistresses, other sissies, and other kinksters, such as those you’ll find on Enchantrix Empire. W/e won’t judge you. W/e’ll reassure you that it’s okay to be who you are, and encourage you to continue looking for real women friends irl who understand and may even participate in your feminization!
It’s a bit more complicated if you retain an interest in women for relationships and/or non-virtual sex.
So let’s start there, with what is in My view the most important question if you fit that description.
Should you tell her?
Start by assessing two things: Her level of integrity, and how kinky she is.
- Hang around her long enough to get a sense of how she feels about keeping secrets and honoring privacy.
- Observe whether or not she gossips a lot, or gets pleasure out of humiliating people (not in the fun way).
- Pay attention to whether or not she’s conservative about matters related to gender identity and sexual orientation. And if you get to that point, try to find out how kinky she is in general.
Sissyhood is, after all, on the kink spectrum. Even if it might not be her particular taste, if she’s kinky she at least may not reject you for it.
Maybe you can even widen her horizons! Sometimes W/e don’t know something will turn U/s on until W/e try it!
After that, it’s a matter of doing so before it becomes a lie of omission.
And when that is, I’ll discuss in part 3.
Stay tuned!
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Great series Ms Rachel!
It is often a conundrum for our gurls when it comes to dating, and sharing their intimate desires with those we are getting to know. Part one and finishing with this wonderful post, filled such thoughtfulness and support I know it will help many!
You are spot on about the support and acceptance we offer, again great minds think alike I just posted a blog mirroring your sentiments. It really is one of my greatest pleasures with what we do: Be there for those who need the understanding and support they cannot get elsewhere.
See you around the Empire, sexy !
Thank You for reading, My dear! I’ll have to be sure to pop over to Your blog and make sure I didn’t miss that post! I think I know which one You reference, but it would be a bummer to miss it if I’m wrong!
The support and acceptance from the LDW Mistress is incredible. The EE forms is a wonderful safe place to admit and be yourself.
This has been a great read so far Miss Rachel. You have been spot on with your analysis of the situation and me.
Thank you for addressing this question.
So glad these posts are resonating with you, My dear!
Thank you for addressing the topic Miss Rachel. I really appreciate how you have taken the time to throughly review the choices and decisions. As always the depth of your answers and writing are impressive.
I can speak first hand at how supportive yourself and the other Mistress of LDW have been. The community on EE is incredible.
I’m on the fence about this 🙁 I want to come out but… it may raise eyebrows:( I’m not gay/into other guys. I’ve worn women’s yoga pants/leggings with perfume on me and ankle boots but girls I play tennis with didn’t say anything or notice:(
Hi Paulina!
Maybe you already HAVE come out, just by virtue of what you wear, and those around you took note of it, but otherwise didn’t consider it any of their business to remark upon.
Either way, if they’re still playing tennis with you, they must not mind!