So, what’s a lie of omission, and when does neglecting to tell a woman you’ve been dating about your sissy self become one?

It’s a bit easier if she’s just a friend with benefits, and neither of you intend to take things further. But it’s better safe than sorry if the friend part of “friend with benefits” really matters to you, to offer full disclosure at some point. You can decide when, but I’m of the opinion that a deep, close friendship that one may want to preserve should involve full disclosure.

If both of you acknowledge it as a true, exclusive or at least emotionally involved romantic relationship, where both of you have the possibility of falling in love, I think full disclosure should happen before the decision to be exclusive is made. If the “L” word passes between you, and she doesn’t know about this very important part of yourself, she might feel as if you’ve lied or misrepresented yourself by failing to tell her before.

Besides, isn’t it better for you, to find out whether or not she’s going to be able to accept this part of who you are before you become too emotionally invested?

Food for thought.

Okay, you know you have to tell her, but how?

Hopefully you’ve discerned, as spoken of in part 2, that she’s got a little kink to her or at least is open-minded in the right ways. The two of you have built a rapport, if not the beginnings of closeness, and you feel you can be safely vulnerable to her.

Try this:

“I’m really starting to like you, and I think you feel the same. I feel I can trust you enough to tell you something a little different about myself. Maybe you’ll find it interesting, maybe you won’t. But I don’t feel it would be honest of me to let things go much further between us without doing so.”

And then you tell her.

And after that, it can only go one of a few ways:

• She’ll find it intriguing but not what she wants in a partner
• She’ll be accepting, but will have limits as to how much involvement in your sissy self she wants to have, as is her right.
• She’ll be turned on, and will want to be fully involved in your feminization.

And while a couple of those may not be ideal, none of them are something you can’t survive.

Right?

I hope you’ve found this series edifying, sissy gurls. If you’ve got any further questions, feel free to get in touch, and I’ll do My best to answer them.

Happy dating, sissies!

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Miss Rachel, your Mean Girl BFF!

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