How can I talk like a woman, is a common lesson with sissy school training. I know you are here learning all you can on how to be more feminine! Today I’m going to discuss a few easy steps you can begin to use today to find your feminine voice! Granted there is little you can do to change your biology and the ramifications of the same but every sissy gurl can learn to sound more feminine, thereby FEELING more feminine and that’s what we are truly after isn’t it?
Talk Like A Woman Step 1
First thing is to learn how to observe with intent. I know you look at women when you are out and about ,and a thousand things run through your mind. How cute are those shoes? I wonder what bra she’s wearing, looks great under that blouse! But what I’m talking about is to really observe women talking to each other, and with men. Your intent is to learn, and how you do that is having a check list of items to observe. You can do this in an intimate setting, such as a small dinner party or business meeting. Or in a larger venue like a food court, outdoor gathering or party.
Observe her body language, are her legs crossed pointing to the person she’s speaking with? Where is she looking? Is she smiling? Does she touch her face or her hair. Does she touch the other person? Much of feminine communication (well, all communication) is body language and women have their own subtle signals. Now make a list of the oh so feminine things ‘she’ does and emulate it during lessons.
How To Talk Like A Woman Step 2
Very much like step one but we move beyond body language. Keeping with the observing with intent mindset This time you are going to focus on HOW women

Do You Want To Talk Like A Woman?
say things. This will also help you not only talk like a woman but THINK like one as well. Women, in general have the following commonality when communicating which isn’t as pronounced with men.
1- Women use more inclusive terms in their speech. Focusing on creating an affinity with their audience.
Example: instead of saying “the concert was great!” a woman might say something like “The concert was fabulous, you would have loved it!”
Women use more pronouns than men, words like “I, You,Me”
2- Women are more likely to ask more questions (even if she already knows the answer) when talking with others.
Don’t forget Women tend to be more “journey focused” than men.
Example: “How did you feel about that?” or “Wow you must have been so happy about that?”.
3- Women are more likely to make suggestions for solutions rather than giving direct orders.
Step 3
Talk Like A Woman When You Are Aroused!
You heard me! When you are engaged in solo play or with me on the phone, your voice changes. You may not realize this because of your erotic fog but It thrills me to hear your true fem voice emerge as you sink deeper and deeper into your feminine self. To perfect your feminine voice you don’t always have to “go higher” in your tone. Not all women have high pitched voices (are you listening to this audio? hahaha) and for you to think you must attain that sound will be frustrating for you, and sound pretty fake to others.
Instead focus on the softness of your words. I’ve noticed men tend to speak in clear cut words. (in the audio I said it like a man) whereas women tend to savor their words more. (example in the audio). I even encourage you to create an affirmation to repeat before you play, during your play and at the peak of arousal and record it! You too will be amazed at the changes! Then you can focus on taking that naughty girl voice out of the bedroom and into everyday life! Well, sans the moaning. (laughs).
So there you have it three easy steps to a more feminine sounding YOU! Are you ready for more feminization training? All you have to do is pick up that phone, or if you are a shy sissy wanna be just email me. Introduce yourself and we’ll go from there. Helping YOU be the best Woman you can be is my absolute pleasure! In the meantime, hop on over to my blog a Intelligent Phone Fantasy and check out my other posts, instructional and fantasy about feminization.
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Thank you for the guide and tips Ms Erika….I have been working on this for some time now. The way yo change the wording on the subject matter suggestions are wonderful….It’s not just the tone apparently. I hadn’t really thought of that before! But i will say being submissive….. and putting Mistress first always…. helps to accomplish some of those thought changes. I very much appreciate your help in making us better sissy gurls!
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA thankyou for this wonderful educational piece
OMG this is too funny! I also just did a post about sissy voice lessons!
~laughs~
We really DO think alike! 🙂 🙂
You have great points about body language and mindset — I think that’s something that surprises any crossdresser or sissy — it’s not all “mechanical” it very internal/emotional — but that IS the key to femininity isn’t it?
Valuable information still valuable after repeat reading
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA still practicing