Hi gurls! This is the perfect month to book your multi-Mistress sissy sessions! You’ve probably seen all around the Enchantrix Empire that multi-Mistress sessions are 20% off all February long. But the advice I intend to share in this blog series (and yes, I think I will need more than one installment–probably two) has no expiration date. So if you like the idea of more than one Mistress participating in your feminization at a time, you might want to read and bookmark, for now and for later!
Take note that the sissy sessions I’m referring to shouldn’t be confused with sissy circuit training. That’s a whole other ball of sissy panties. What I intend to advise you about is the type of session that involves more than one Mistress at a time participating in a real-time session with you either by phone, SexyTexting, or Skype.
Obviously, I hope I’m one of the Mistresses you choose to take you on your sissification excursion, but I think My advice will stand you in good stead no matter who you choose.
Is this advice specific to multiple Mistress sissy sessions?
It will probably be helpful in choosing a Mistress for single-Mistress sissy sessions as well.
But I’m addressing it in this context, not only because of the special pricing available to you this month, but also because many of you will be introducing an unfamiliar Mistress into a comfortable dynamic.
Let’s face it, a lot of gurls have a favorite feminization Mistress. You’re familiar with Her tastes and vibe, and She yours. Including someone new is exciting, and can be an absolute blast–if you prepare.
Sure, your Headmistress can simply make a recommendation. But I bet She’ll give you lots of good gurl pats if you save Her the time, come to Her with a Mistress you’re prepared to have Her reach out to, or to reach out to yourself!
So, what should you ask yourself or find out in the quest for those good gurl pats?
Let’s start by outlining the important questions.
In short, these questions are:
- What “kind” of sissy are you?
- How far along are you in your sissification journey? And,
- Why would you want a multi-Mistress sissy session?
Pretty simple, right?
Now, let’s expound (for you sissy bimbos, “expound” means “describe in more detail”. *giggle*)
Why does the kind of sissy you are matter?
Put simply, some Mistresses are better at certain kinds of sissy sessions than they are at others. Including Me.
But before I get into that, let’s make sure W/e’re on the same page with regard to the basic definition of a sissy as far as Goddess Rachel is concerned:
In My book, a sissy is a male-gendered submissive interested in or attracted to feminization, usually related to some form or degree of humiliation.
See? It can even matter how a Mistress views the sissy kink.
Why? Well, I bet some of you are saying, “But I’m a sissy, and I don’t fit that definition!”
Calm down sweetie. Don’t overheat your hot rollers. I don’t want you to get Me wrong:
I realize that there are a lot of blurry lines and intersections between gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, and kink interests. Moreover, I support the idea of identifying however you want.
But the fact that those intersections exist only underscores how important it is to communicate these, with both Mistresses with whom you plan to play. That way, even if one or both of Us have different assumptions, we can still take the definition of sissy that’s meaningful to you personally into consideration before and (assuming W/e get there) during sissy sessions.
And how are both Mistresses, especially a Mistress who’s new to you, supposed to take note of those intersections if you haven’t even considered them yourself? Furthermore, if you haven’t considered them, how can you articulate them? Lastly, if you haven’t articulated them, how can you be sure that you’re finding the right Mistress or Mistress combination?
Now then, let’s identify some types of sissies, so you can see where you might fit, and how you might describe yourself to potential Mistress playmates.
(And yes, it’s fine to fit into more than one category. Likely, even.)
What “kind” of sissy are you?
According to My definition (and probably simplifying things quite a bit), here are some sissy types:
Sissy Slut: Gurls who like to feminize (to whatever degree) and service cock, usually the cocks of Alpha males. I consider the sissy bimbo and sissy faggot to be a subset of the sissy slut, but then again, there’s so much mix n’ match in the sissy kink!
Domestic Sissy: S/he loves her sissy maid uniform, and desires to serve he/r Mistress by doing chores while wearing it. Those chores may include sexual favors/training, or not.
Cuckold Sissy: A gurl whose sissy identity is intimately connected with the idea of being feminized and cuckolded. S/he either has, or fantasizes about having, a wife or girlfriend who fucks other men (or, just men, as a sissy can’t really be considered a man) as a consequence of or in addition to the feminization.
And . . .
Clothes Horse Sissies: Strike a pose! These are gurls whose greatest satisfaction comes simply from having Mistress “shop” for them and/or dress them. This can be a source of humiliation (coerced fem), validation, or both.
Sissies who, er, need non- or indirectly sexual training and nurturing: Was that too cryptic? No kink shaming intended! It’s just that there are certain types of play that We like to keep in session. If you really don’t know what I’m referring to, feel free to E-mail Me. I do not, incidentally, facilitate these types of sissy sessions Myself.
Transgender Sissy: A gurl who identifies with a non-male gender identity and also enjoys the sissy kink.
Sissy Boi: He doesn’t tend to prefer being referred to with feminine pronouns, but is submissive, and enjoys some feminization, usually body hair removal and lingerie.
You could argue that there are even more distinctions and cross-sections, but the point is, knowing what kind of sissy you are, being able to describe it, will help you find the right combination of Mistresses to make sure your multi-Mistress sissy session is everything you dream of!
Just understand that not every Mistress has the same tastes.
Next, I’m going to describe some types of sissies who fall outside of My basic definition mostly for one reason: submission doesn’t feature highly in their ideal sissy session.
Intrigued? Keep reading!
Sissy Sessions without Submission
If you identify as a sissy, but don’t really consider yourself submissive, you should make that known to Myself, and to any other Mistress you’d like involved in sissy sessions with you.
What are some examples of sissies who might not identify or overtly behave as a submissive might be expected to?
“Girlfriend” sissies: those gurls who want to call and talk as equals about boys, clothes, makeup, and all things traditionally femme, without having to observe honorifics like “Ma’am” or “Mistress”
Despite My general definition, I like these** sissy sessions. But I repeat, as with any or all of these, it’s important to note that not all Mistresses do.
“Lesbian” Sissies: Gurls who want to dress up together with Mistress, make out, and possibly make love. Again, this is more or less as equals, and is akin to GFE. These gurls often refer to themselves as sissies mostly as a matter of taste, and not because they make any particular distinction between being a sissy and a crossdresser.
In contrast to “Girlfriend” sissy sessions, I am not a good choice for these. But W/e do have Mistresses who are. You just need to know that that’s what you want.
Please don’t hesitate to ask for the assistance of Our concierge desk, or fill out a Mistress Recommendation Form to get suggestions, especially if you think your sissy needs are quite specific or outside of the norm.
Well, I think that’s quite enough for one installment, don’t you?
Listen in below, however, and I’ll tell you why it may be important to tell your potential second (or third, or fourth, or fifth) Mistress how far into your sissification journey you are!
Look for the second (and most fun) installment about why you might want to have a multi-Mistress sissification session soon!
Goddess Rachel, Fan of Multi-Mistress Sissy Sessions!
**As long as you don’t call Me “bitch”. I know some girlfriends refer to each other that way, but none of Mine do, and I probably wouldn’t be friends with a girl who did.