How To Find A Feminization Mistress by Ms Harper

One of the trickiest things for a sweet sissy to navigate in the world is the search for a Feminization Mistress. It’s really tricky to find someone that understands your desires and can help you satisfy them. While you’re looking for someone in the real world around you that can feminize and direct you, you can still take advantage of everything that online and phone domination can offer. Many sissies do find that long distance feminization is perfect for what they need. Interested? Let’s talk about exactly how to get your sissification needs met.

How To Find a Feminization Mistress

Before you set out on the search for a Feminization Mistress, I think you should take stock of yourself and what you’d like to get out of your feminization. Some Sissies are interested in guidance dressing and appearing as femme as possible, and some are interested in exploring anal orgasms or cock sucking instructions, while others want sissy masturbation instructions. Finding a femdom who specializes in what you’re most interested in can be quite the endeavor, but it’s worth it. And so much easier if you know exactly what you’re looking for first. So, now that you know what you want, what’s next?

Reach Out To Your Potential Femdom

You know how the saying goes, about plenty of fish in the sea? Well, you have to cast a wide net, and be fearless. Pick yourself out two or three, or even more lovely Feminization Mistresses, and send out some emails, or drop us a line on Discord, Twitter/X, or Bluesky. Whichever you’re most comfortable with. Or you can fill out a Mistress Recommendation form, and see who our Erotic Concierge Ladies think might fit your needs. But, you have to make the first step! That’s the thing: a Feminzation Mistress is not going to drop out of the sky into your lap by random happenstance one day.

Negotiate The Scene

So, you know what you would like to experience, you’ve reached out to some sexy Ladies to see if they’d be interested in playing with you, and now it’s time to get nasty. Oh, did you think you were supposed to be nasty and explict when you reached out initially? Oh, hun, no. That first email you send, keep your nasty a little restrained. Mention what you’re interested in, but keep it fairly general. The dirty deets are for the second and third emails! Right out the gate you’re just looking for general interest. Something like “Hi, I’m Sissy NAME, and I’m interested in a coerced crossdressing and cocksucking session, and was wondering if you’d be down to play? LMK, thanks!” Once she says “heck yes, tell me more!” that’s your cue to spill the full nasty. Get explicit and describe your fantasy.

Dive Into Your Fantasy

At last, you have found your Feminization Mistress, and it’s time to dive right on in. Jump, darling, and enjoy yourself! This is your fantasty, and it’s time to make it live, and breathe, and be real for a little while. For your maximum enjoyment of your fantasy, make sure that you have communicated clearly with your Femdom Mistress about what you’d like to have happen, and that you’re prepared. Be a well-prepared slut, and prepare ahead of time. Have your outfit ready to put on, make sure you’ve charged your vibrators and washed your dildos, and that you have any lube or other toys you may need. Nothing is less sexy than having to pause while you go looking for the other stocking. Ready to play? Get comfortable and pick up the phone, start the Discord call, open the G-meet, and enjoy your time.

Meet Feminization Mistress Harper

I love helping sissies explore their desires. Whether you want to be humiliated about your sissy journey or embraced as you start your feminization trek, I love every aspect of your gender fuckery. Let’s get you all femme’d up, and then have too much fun together. You can email me, find me on Discord at LDWHarper, hit me up on Bluesky, and I still fuck around with Twitter/X, too. Let’s bend some gender, fuck some sweet slutty holes, and have a grand time together. And no, I will never be upset if you decide that another of the Ladies meets your needs better. I just want to know you’re having the time of your life with us.

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Your Feminization Mistress, Harper