What Is the Difference Between a Sissy and Crossdresser?
There is a distinct difference between a sissy, crossdresser, and transgender. A crossdresser enjoys the feel of lingerie and while wearing it can tap into his feminine side; however he enjoys being a man as well. A transgender wants to be a girl. She may be on her way to full transformation or designates a time when she can safely be the girl. A transgender would rather be a girl than a boy, but may have decided that she needs to maintain both identities.
A sissy, on the other hand, is a more complex identity. There are many types of sissies, but the one common thread between them is that their persona is exaggerated. At the core of his sexuality, the sissy wants to emasculate and defy his maleness. Often it’s a process of deconstructing so he can relinquish control to his sissification. So not only does he become a maid but a sexy, super personified French sissy maid or he may adopt a more demur persona that is more service oriented. Sissies adore humiliation. Each sissy has levels of erotic embarrassment that make his little clitty hard. For some it’s more extreme… completely forcing his manhood into a sissified male, or it could be subtle hints of sissy humiliation that make him blush.
What Kind of Sissification Is Right for You?
Sit down and try to discover what kind of sissy you are. Are you still exploring and using your sissification to snuff machismo, or are you beyond that stage and looking to really explore being a girl? Listen to the audio for guided instruction.
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This is a great article which makes me think about myself and my role in life.
You are so right that we all love some kind of humiliation. For me, I have accepted the fact that the female gender has so much more power and control in every way than the male gender. One ungodly fact is I was born with the wrong chromosomes. This I have realized is not going to stop me from exploring who I am mentally. The physical part can be changed quite easily, expensive, but easily. And I cannot understand why women get to wear all of the soft, silky, pretty clothing…. because society says we can’t.
Therefore sissy’s were labelled, because we enjoy soft, silky, pretty clothing and can accept our feminine side.
Oh, I so would love to be a girl, and go through all of the humiliation and surgery to get there but my family who I love dearly would never accept that. So, I have to enjoy my sissyness with myself and friends from “Sissyville” and Goddesses from LDW who understand us. Thank you and all my love to each and every one of the Goddesses. And along the way if I can satisfy a “real man” or “real woman” orally, sexually or domestically then it makes me feel like it is all worth the effort.
Smiles, first a stephanie, and now steph. And I agree with her comment this is a great article concerning the differences between being a crossdresser, sissy or transgender. However, for me I disagree with the humiliation, for me it’s a journey that has roots back to my youth. At each step it’s been learning acceptance of who I am inside and has progressed to true desire to be totally female. In reflecting back, it doesn’t go away. Society says it’s not the norm and not acceptable, but with technology,knowledge,and with true desire it can be changed although expensive. I thank the Empresses and Mistresses from LDW for accepting this form of outlet for those of us that takes this journey and so willing to assist and understands. I hope articles such as this helps others decide and define who they are and helps them to acceptance.
I think that humiliation can be very constructive, fun and break down a lot of barriers. Its not for everyone and let’s face it each person has their own comfort level. Humiliation can be slight erotic embarrassment or out and out degradation. Even in it’s more extreme forms I think it’s hot and simply can just be a type of foreplay. At the same time Steph I understand how it can conflict with your “journey” and that you might be sensitive to this. Thats ok too. I think that if you were in a trusting and intimate relationship you’ve allow that journey to become more dynamic. 🙂