I’m here to tell you that you absolutely can improve your feminine voice to make it more passable but chances are, you’ve not been going about it the right way.

Just practicing raising the pitch of your voice and/or speaking softer is not the way to go about achieving the feminine voice of your dreams.

If you really do want a more passable feminine voice, there is no reason you can’t achieve it, just know that it takes work and is a process. There are many facets to achieving this goal and work must be done in all areas to really succeed in achieving the feminine voice of your dreams.

Learning to Breathe and Project from the Diaphragm

One of the first, and most important things to learn how to do, sissy gurl, is learning to breathe and project from the diaphragm.  Most talking simply involves the vocal chords with very little deep breathing involved.  This places a lot of extra work on the vocal chords and leaves very little room for changing the voice in any way.

I’m sure you’ve heard of diaphragm breathing and maybe even tried it before if you do yoga or sing or play a musical instrument that requires breath but I doubt you’ve ever thought about the importance of breathing from the diaphragm to have a more feminine voice.

It’s not that speaking from the diaphragm makes the voice more feminine– it’s that it allows you more freedom in altering the voice when the sound is projecting from the diaphragm and not just the voice box. Once you learn how to do diaphragm breathing properly, try to speak by pushing the air out of the diaphragm and up through the throat and mouth.  When you do this, the actual sound is created by the breath coming from from the diaphragm and hitting the vocal cords, making it much easier to control volume, pitch, timbre, and more.

Increasing Vocal Range

In order to truly change the pitch of your voice, you must increase your vocal range. You do this the same way singers work on increasing their their singing range.  There is a series of exercises, that when combined with proper breathing, and practiced regularly will definitely increase your vocal range.

While your ultimate goal is to increase the range of your speaking voice and not necessarily your singing voice, it is important to do the signing exercises for increasing vocal range because just trying to do them with a speaking voice will not achieve the results you are looking for.

These exercises range from learning to raise your soft palate and keep it raised to changing the way you move your mouth and hold your tongue, and more. If you are unsure how to raise your soft palate, just yawn real big and take note of the area at the back of the roof of your mouth. That is your soft palate.  The soft palate raises when you are at the height of a yawn.  With practice, you can learn to raise your soft palate and train it to stay raised as you are speaking which will do wonders for helping increase your vocal range, thus making you sound and feel more girlie, with a much more feminine-sounding voice.

Learning the Difference Between the Way Women Speak and the Way Men Speak

Women speak in a sing-song voice while men tend to speak in more of a monotone voice.  Simply raising the voice and continuing to speak with the monotone voice will just sound like a guy trying to sound like a female and will not result in your best feminine voice.  It may sound silly, but it”s true. This is a really important thing to learn if you are going to be as feminized as you can be. Spend some time really listening to yourself when you talk and then listening to women talk, you will definitely hear a difference.

There are also many words and phrases that women use and men don’t and vice versa.  Knowing what these are and making the proper adjustments will also go a long way in helping your voice to sound more feminine- along with all of the other things mentioned here, of course!

On top of knowing the differences in wording between men and women, you should know the differences between words used by more mature females and wording used by say, 18 year-old girls.  Your goal is to be over-the-top which means going for the dramatic speech patterns of the younger girl and overemphasizing them, sprinkling your speech with words and phrases they would use.

Learning Female Gestures and Mannerisms

Think about it.  You’ve seen voice actors behind the scenes as they are recording their lines for cartoons, right? Have you ever noticed, they change their facial expressions and use grand sweeping gestures while they are voicing their lines?

They do this because when your body is going through these motions, the brain picks up on it and is cued to put the appropriate emotion in the voice without even really having to think about it.  It’s almost instinctual.

For this reason, it’s important to study females talking, the faces the make, the mannerisms they use, and practice doing them yourself when trying to speak in feminine voice.  As mentioned in the next paragraph, not only learning and using these gestures is important but overemphasizing them is key.

Again, it may seem silly but this is but one of very important things you need to do to find your best feminine voice.

The Importance of Overemphasis in Feminine Voice

If you’ve ever sung in a choir, I’m sure you were taught to overemphasize your S’s, T’s, and other parts of speech so they aren’t lost, making it difficult to understand what is being sung. The same principle applies here but in a different way.

You need to take the female mannerisms and overemphasize them in order for them to even be noticeable.  The sing-song voice pattern women have- starting a word lower, raising pitch in the middle, and coming back down at the end should be greatly overemphasized in order for it to even be heard since the typical male tendency is to speak each word from start to finish at the same pitch.

If you haven’t ever sung in the choir, I’m telling you this is important and don’t skip over it if you’re trying to get a better feminine voice. You will feel quite silly doing this but I urge you to record yourself doing it both ways and I guarantee you you’ll see what I mean.

Even with you overemphasizing (or doing what you think is overemphasizing) you have to remember that sissies are over-the-top so big, dramatic gestures should be used, as well as, dramatic words and phrases not unlike a Valley Girl would use. Valley girls and sissy gurls have a lot in common in the way they speak.  Think about it.

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This post has been but a brief overview of all the things that need to work together in order to achieve a more feminine-sounding voice. Each category has many detailed exercises that start from beginner-level and range to advanced.  There is a lot involved in truly achieving a more feminine and each person is different.

Ideally, to achieve the best results, you should have a plan tailored to meet your specific needs. Daily email assignments geared toward improving your feminine voice combined with practice and sissy phone sessions is the quickest way to achieve that feminine voice you’ve been dreaming of!

Do you want to have a more girlie-sounding voice? I would love to help you get that. Give me a call so we can discuss it and then sign up for Daily Email Assignments that work together to help you reach your goal.

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