Happy New Year Sissies! I hope you’ve all survived the winter holiday month of endless busy and hectic running around, and are now ready to settle into a brand new year, and a new you! Have you set your sissy resolutions yet? If you haven’t, I have some advice for you, and not to hide the good stuff under a ton of wordy blather, I’ll just straight up tell you. First up, chase your bliss! Next, embrace feminine energy. And finally, let go of what doesn’t serve you. Want to know details? Keep reading!
Sissy Resolutions
Every good sissy knows that being a sissy can be a hard road. If you’re a sissy on the ‘femme to trans woman pipeline’, you know this more than anyone else! Don’t worry, even sissies who are just in panties because it gets them off know that being a sissy can be difficult. Finding or buying panties, carving out special alone time with your purloined panties, and taking your ‘me time’ for that sissy masturbation orgasmic explosion in silk can be really hard to manage! That’s why my first tip for your sissy resolutions this year is to chase your bliss. What makes you happy? What makes you light up and go all squirmy and gleeful? Do that. Do that more! Resolve that this year you’ll make an effort to schedule more sissy time for yourself, and more time spent doing the things that make you happy. Life is short! Do what makes you smile more often!
Embrace Feminine Energy
Woo, new-age buzzwords ahoy, but don’t worry, that’s just special code for “be more femme!” Embrace the feminine energy in everything! Girl power is here to stay, so grab a hold and run with it. You know that defining things like ‘femme’ and ‘masc’ is tricky, because our society and culture changes so rapidly. What was purely the domain of women in the past is a manly dude thing now! The first computer programmers were women, then men took over and now it’s the land of men (I know all about how many trans women are in computer programming, that’s the joke!) When I say ’embrace feminine energy’ as your second sissy resolution, I mean that you should resolve to bring a certain femme vibe to your entire life. From your skincare routine to your clothes that adorn your feminine body, to the way you meal prep, commute to work, and what you do for your leisure time. Femme it ALL up!
Does It Serve You? No? BYE!
Let 2024 be the year that you finally jettison all the things in your life that do not spark joy, as Ms Kondo says. Thank it for it’s service, and then Let It Go. If you want to wear a ballgown and sing in a snowy field while you release the things holding you back, I certainly won’t stop you, but you can also do this inside with the heat on while wearing a lacy teddie and matching panties. All the things that have been holding you back from your bliss, your joy, and your perfect femme life: say bye bye and get it gone! From outdated ideas about gender roles to internalized trans and homo phobias, that drawer full of masculine styled underwear, dress shirts and ties, and those godsawful male dress shoes with the smooth leather soles. Bonfire of the vanities time, get rid of all that! If you’re chasing your bliss and embracing the femme, you kinda have to get rid of the things that prevent you from becoming the sissy of your dreams.
Ready For The New You?!
Are you ready for 2024 to be YOUR YEAR? You should be, it’s gonna be your year whether you choose it or not. But you can choose to direct the vibrant flow of your own life, to plot the course, and take control over your destiny. Are you the sad sack who fails to launch? The poor little humiliated sissy stroker in the closet crying about how you have to steal panties and furtively wank in them, or are you going to finally admit that, damn it, you LOVE panties, you LOVE wearing girly things, and if you want that edge of humiliation to your erotic masturbation, well there’s nothing wrong with that, either! Point and laugh, call me names, just let me wear panties and be a sissy!
Embrace your sissy style, slut. You can do it. I know you can. As easy as falling down a hill, once you let go of whatever it is that’s holding you back. I said at the start that it’s hard, but in reality it’s only hard because you’re the thing making it difficult. And you can be the force in your life that suddenly makes it all so easy and carefree. Chase your bliss, embrace the feminine energy of the world, and stop holding yourself back.
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I think I should resolve to delve in to my fantasy more deeply. So far I have played on the edges, I occasionally call a mistress and play with lipstick, but not much else.
Perhaps sometime this year I should look for a way to act out my fantasy for real? I can certainly practice with makeup, but something for real is looking more and more enticing.
Oooh, yes, come to the real side! We have big cocks for you to suck! Bringing your fantasies to life can be a lot of fun, you certainly have something awesome to look forward to!
Cliche though it sounds, doing a few little things here and there can add up to big sissy changes in the long term. You can resolve to always keep your sissy parts neat and trimmed. No one except those who know you best will ever know. But you will. Eventually you can resolve to buy more pretty panties and wear them exclusively.
There are so many things you can do to very subtly and discretely bring your sissy games into your day to day life! Yes, keeping things nicely trimmed down there can be a huge change for your mental and emotional world, but very simple in the real world!
I know the new year was just over four months ago, but the new year is just a day on the calendar.
We can make sissy resolutions at any point, no need to wait until the next new year!
Learning to better embrace our feminine characteristics is an excellent one. And not just our sexual ones.
“Embrace The Woman Inside” — that sounds like a good title for a self-help book for men who wish shed themselves of the toxic masculinity the patriarchy promotes, whether that man is non-binary or cis.
I don’t know that such a book exists, but self-reflecting and identifying aspects of the woman inside first so we can then embrace them is probably right on target for something Harper could help us do with her Life Coach service.